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Dr. Garber provides continuing education training to educators, mental health, legal, and family law professionals around the world. Format (in-person, live video feed, and/or video-recorded), duration (two-day, one-day, keynote, or brief), and topic vary by audience need, timing, and resources.

Dr. Garber uses PowerPoint(TM) uniquely to capture complex concepts as easily understood visual metaphors. His presentations are entertaining, engaging, challenging, and practical. Across topics and settings and modalities, Dr. Garber's goal is to improve participants' here-and-now, hands-on ability to better understand and serve the needs of children.

Participants in upcoming trainings are encouraged to access conference-specific materials in advance of the conference date. These materials will remain available through the conference date for on-site access and following the conference date depending on the host's preferences.

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Is your group planning a
continuing education training?


Dr. Garber
will be glad to discuss possible formats, topics,
and how best to engage and educate your targeted audience.


Costs will include travel, room,and board when appropriate to format . Dr. Garber's stipend will depend on your group's resources, how much time will be required in preparation, and how much time will be necessary away from the office.

When Dr. Garber travels to conduct trainings, its often cost-efficient to schedule an advanced small group consultation prior to and/or following the large group event.


Examples of past
training events include:
Advance Orientation (AO)
improves efficacy, efficiency, ecological validity,
and consumer satisfaction


When consumers of a service participate in an advance orientation to that service, they are more satisfied and the service is more efficient and effective. This program introduces ADVANCE ORIENTATION to family law and the extensive research that demonstrates the value of DEFUSEdivorce.com programming.
 

Advance orientation
Resist/Refuse Dynamics
and the Polarized Child


Dr. Garber introduces an evaluative rubric that helps to minimize bias, avoid premature closure, and assure that the full spectrum of dynamics and practical pressures are examined. The "Five Factor Model" is critiqued as biased and circular.
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Sampling Relationship Dynamics:
Considering the goals and methods of
behavioral observations in CCEs


Evaluators are expected to rely upon diverse methods.
This full day training examines how best to realistically sample family relationships,
emphasizing a process-oriented protocol.
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Dynamics, not Diagnoses:
Focusing the family law lens on relationship "fit"


Mental health professionals working in family law routinely drag the baggage inherited from the medical model into the fray. Family law is about relationship dynamics, not individual diagnoses. Of particular interest is the argument against the use of individual adult psychometrics in family law matters.
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Structure diminishes Anxiety:
Assessing and imposing roles, limits, boundaries,
and routines in conflicted family systems

Understanding the structures that define each family, the structures that define your practice, and the structures inherent in the judicial system is critical to our success as family law professionals.
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Resilience-informed Family Law:
Building Parenting Plans on Systemic Strengths


Child Custody Evaluations (CCEs) and litigation focused on weakness, failures, and pathology rewards the least detrimental parent and leaves the family system in shreds. Focusing the process on strengths and resilience genuinely works in the best interests of each child.
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DEFUSEdivorce.com
provides divorce- and custody-litigating parents
with online orientation to the many services and situations
associated with the legal process.



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Dr. Garber is the proud creator and director of
DEFUSE
divorce.com
the place that parents go to put their children's needs first.




DEFUSEdivorce.com provides online education,
orientation, and resources to divorcing parents.


 
Research in medicine, nursing, dentistry, public health, psychotherapy
and numerous other fields has demonstrated that advance orientation
improves outcomes, efficiency, efficacy, and consumer satisfaction.


Why
DEFUSEdivorce.com?

 
1. Divorce and custody litigation create anxiety.

2. Anxiety interferes with clear thinking.

3. Information diminishes anxiety.

4. DEFUSEdivorce.com provides you with information about the many services and situations
associated with the legal process.

5. Diminished anxiety means
  • less conflict
  • quicker resolution
  • less stress
  • less cost
  • all to your children's benefit

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How do divorcing parents find
DEFUSEdivorce.com?



Courts order custody litigants to complete specific DEFUSEdivorce.com
programs because  advance orientation
improves the efficacy and efficiency of interventions and evaluations.

Evaluators require parents to complete specific
DEFUSEdivorce.com
programs because  advance orientation
diminishes anxiety and thereby
improves the ecological validity of the data collected.

Clinicians refer court-involved clients to
DEFUSEdivorce.com
programs because  educated consumers are
more likely to feel heard, are more satisfied, and
are less likely to suffer the stresses of litigation.

Court-involved parents refer themselves to
DEFUSEdivorce.com
programs because education, orientation, and resources
benefit their children.


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DEFUSEdivorce.com
provides litigating parents
with online orientation to the many services and situations
associated with the legal process.



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It must not be construed as constituting legal, psychological, educational, or medical advice.
Decisions relevant to any specific individual, relationship, or family should be based on
the considered opinions of professionals familiar with the
unique culture, resources, strengths, and needs of those affected.










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